Reader, stay, and read not the advices of the
following section, unless thou hast a chaste spirit, or desirest to be chaste,
or at least art apt to consider whether you ought or no. For there are some
spirits so atheistical, and some so wholly possessed with a spirit of
uncleanness, that they turn the most prudent and chaste discourses into dirty
and filthy apprehensions; like choleric stomachs, changing their very cordials
and medicines into bitterness, and, in a literal sense, turning the grace of
God into wantonness. They study cases of conscience in the matter of carnal
sins, not to avoid, but to learn ways how to offend God and pollute their own
spirits; and search their houses with a sunbeam, that they may be instructed in
all the corners of nastiness. I have used all the care I could in the following
periods, that I might neither be wanting to assist those that need it, nor yet
minister any occasion of fancy or vainer thoughts to those that need them not.
If any man will snatch the pure taper from my hand and hold it to the devil, he
will only burn his own fingers, but shall not rob me of the reward of my care
and good intention, since I have taken heed how to express the following
duties, and given him caution how to read them.
Chastity is that duty which was mystically
intended by God in the law of circumcision. It is the circumcision of the
heart, the cutting off all superfluity of naughtiness, and a suppression of all
irregular desires in the matters of sensual or carnal pleasure. I call all
desires irregular and sinful that are not sanctified: 1. by the holy
institution, or by being within the protection of marriage; 2. by being within
the order of nature; 3. by being within the moderation of Christian modesty.
Against the first are fornication, adultery, and all voluntary pollutions of
either sex. Against the second are all unnatural lusts and incestuous mixtures.
Against the third is all immoderate use of permitted beds, concerning meats and
drinks, there being no certain degree of frequency or intention prescribed to
all persons; but it is to be ruled as the other actions of a man, by proportion
to the end, by the dignity of the person in the honour and severity of being a
Christian, and by other circumstances of which I am to give account.
Chastity is that grace which forbids and
restrains all these, keeping the body and soul pure in that state in which it
is placed by God, whether of the single or of the married life; concerning
which our duty is thus described by St. Paul: `For this is the will of God,
even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication; that every
one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour,
not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God.'
Chastity is either abstinence or continence.
Abstinence is that of virgins or widows; continence of married persons. Chaste
marriage are honourable and pleasing to God; widowhood is pitiable in its
solitariness and loss, but amiable and comely when it is adorned with gravity
and purity, and not sullied with remembrances of the past license, nor with
present desires of returning to a second bed. But virginity is a life of
angels, the enamel of the soul, the huge advantage of religion, the great
opportunity for the retirements of devotion; and, being empty of cares it is full of prayers; being
unmingled with the world, it is apt to converse with God; and by not feeling
the warmth of a too forward and indulgent nature, flames out with holy fires
till it be burning like the cherubim and the most ecstasied order of holy and
Natural virginity, of itself, is not a state more
acceptable to God; but that which is chosen and voluntary, in order to the
conveniences of religion and separation from worldly encumbrances, is therefore
better than the married life, not that it is more holy, but that it is a
freedom from cares, an opportunity to spend more time in spiritual employments.
It is not allayed with businesses and attendances upon lower affairs; and if it
be a chosen condition to these ends, it containeth in it a victory over lusts,
and greater desires of religion and self-denial, and therefore is more
excellent than the married life, in that degree in which it hath greater
religion, and a greater mortification, a less satisfaction of natural desires,
and a greater fulness of the spiritual: and just so is to expect that little
coronet, or special reward, which God hath prepared (extraordinary and besides
the great crown of all faithful souls) for those `who have not defiled
themselves with women, but follow the virgin Lamb for ever.'
But some married persons, even in their marriage,
do better please God than some virgins in their state of virginity: they, by
giving great example of conjugal affection, by preserving their faith unbroken,
by educating children in the fear of God, by patience, and contentedness, and
holy thoughts, and the exercise of virtues proper to that state, do not only
please God, but do in a higher degree than those virgins whose piety is not
answerable to their great opportunities and advantages.
However, married persons, and widows, and
virgins, are all servants of God, and co-heirs in the inheritance of Jesus, if
they live within the restraints and laws of their particular estate, chastely,
temperately, justly, and rigorously.
The blessings and proper effects of chastity
we shall best understand, by reckoning the evils of uncleanness and
1. Uncleanness, of all vices, is the most
shameful. `The eye of the adulterer waiteth for the twilight, saying, No eye
shall see me; and disguiseth his face. In the dark they dig through houses,
which they had marked for themselves in the day-time; they knew not the light,
for the morning is to them as the shadow of death. He is swift as the waters;
their portion is cursed in the earth; he beholdeth not the way of the
vineyards.' Shame is the eldest daughter
2. The appetites of uncleanness are full of cares
and trouble, and its fruitation is sorrow and repentance. The way of the
adulterer is hedged with thorns; full of
fears and jealousies, burning desires and impatient waitings, tediousness of
delay, and sufferance of affronts and amazements of discovery.
3. Most of its kinds are of that condition that
they involve the ruin of two souls, and he that is a fornicator or adulterous
steals the soul, as well as dishonours the body of his neighbour; and so it
becomes like the sin of falling Lucifer, who brought a part of the stars with
his tail from heaven.
4. Of all carnal sins, it is that alone which the
devil takes delight to imitate and counterfeit; communicating with witches and
impure persons in the corporal act, but in this only.
5. Uncleanness, with all its kinds, is a vice
which hath a professed enmity against the body, `Every sin which a man doth is
without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own
6. Uncleanness is hugely contrary to the spirit
of government by embasing the spirit of a
man, making if effeminate, sneaking, soft, and foolish, without courage,
without confidence. David felt this after his folly with Bathsheba; he fell to
unkingly acts and stratagems to hide the crime; and he did nothing but increase
it, and remained timorous and poor spirited, till he prayed to God once more to
establish him with a free and a princely spirit. And no superior dare strictly observe discipline upon his
charge, if he hath let himself loose to the shame of incontinence.
7.The gospel hath added two arguments against
uncleanness which were never before used, nor, indeed, could be; since God hath
given the Holy Spirit to them that are baptized, and rightly confirmed and
entered into covenant with him, our bodies are made temples of the Holy Ghost,
in which he dwells; and therefore uncleanness is sacrilege, and defiles a
temple. It is St. Paul's argument, `Know ye not that your body is the temple of
the Holy Ghost?' and `He that defiles a
temple him will God destroy. Therefore
glorify God in your bodies; that is, flee fornication. To which, for the
likeness of the argument, add, that our bodies are members of Christ; and
therefore God forbid that we should take the members of Christ and make them
members of a harlot.' So that uncleanness dishonours Christ, and dishonours the
Holy Spirit: it is a sin against God, and in this sense, a sin against the Holy
8. The next special argument which the gospel
ministers, especially against adultery, and for the preservation of the purity
of marriage, is, that marriage is by Christ hallowed into a mystery, to signify
the sacramental and mystical union of Christ and his church. He, therefore, that breaks this knot, which the church
and their mutual faiths have tied, and Christ hath knit up into a mystery
dishonours a great rite of Christianity, of high, spiritual, and excellent
9. St. Gregory reckons uncleanness to be the
parent of these monsters, blindness of mind, inconsideration, precipitancy, or
giddiness in actions, self-love, hatred of God, love of the present pleasures,
a despite or despair of the joys of religion here, and of heaven hereafter.
Whereas, a pure mind in a chaste body is the mother of wisdom and deliberation,
sober counsels and ingenuous actions, open deportment and a sweet carriage,
sincere principles and unprejudicate understanding, love of God and
self-denial, peace and confidence, holy prayers and spiritual comfort, and a
pleasure of spirit infinitely greater than the sottish and beastly pleasures of
unchastity. "For to overcome pleasure is the greatest pleasure; and no victory
is greater than that which is gotten over our lusts and filthy
10. Add to all these, the public dishonesty and
disreputation that all the nations of the world have cast upon adulterous and
unhallowed embraces. Abimelech, to the men of Gerar, made it death to meddle
with the wife of Isaac, and Judah condemned Thamar to be burnt for her
adulterous conception; and God, besides the law made to put the adulterous
person to death, did constitute a settled and constant miracle to discover the
adultery of a suspected woman, that her bowels should burst with drinking the
waters of jealousy. The Egyptian law was to cut off the nose of the adulteress,
and the offending part of the adulterer. The Locrians put out both the
adulterer's eyes. The Germans (as Tacitus reports) placed the adulteress amidst
her kindred, naked, and shaved her head, and caused her husband to beat her
with clubs through the city. The Gortynaeans crowned the man with wool, to
shame him for his effeminacy; and the Cumani caused the woman to ride upon an
ass, naked, and hooted at, and for ever after called her by an appellative of
scorn, "a rider upon the ass." All nations, barbarous and evil, agreeing in
their general design, of rooting so dishonest and shameful a vice from under
The middle ages of the church were not pleased
that the adulteress should be put to death: but in the primitive ages, the
civil laws by which Christians were then governed gave leave to the wronged
husband to kill his adulterous wife if he took her in the fact; but because it
was a privilege indulged to men, rather than a direct detestation of the crime,
a consideration of the injury rather than of the uncleanness, therefore it was
soon altered; but yet hath caused an inquiry, Whether is worse, the adultery of
the man or the woman?
The resolution of which case, in order to our
present affair, is thus: in respect of the person, the fault is greater in a
man than in a woman, who is of a more pliant and easy spirit, and weaker
understanding, and hath nothing to supply the unequal strengths of men, but the
defensative of a passive nature and armour of modesty, which is the natural
ornament of that sex. "And it is unjust that the man should demand chastity and
severity from his wife which himself will not observe towards her, said the good Emperor Antoninus: it is as
if the man should persuade his wife to fight against those enemies to which he
had yielded himself a prisoner. In
respect of the effects and evil consequents, the adultery of the woman is
worse, as bringing bastardly into a family, and disinherisons or great injuries
to the lawful children, and infinite violations of peace, and murders, and
divorces, and all the effects of rage and madness. But in respect of the crime,
and as relating to God, they are equal, intolerable, and damnable: and since it
is no more permitted to men to have many wives than to women to have many
husbands, and that in this respect their privilege is equal, their sin is so
too. And this is the case of the question in Christianity. And the church
anciently refused to admit such persons to the holy communion, until they had
done seven years penances in fasting, in sackcloth, in severe inflictions and
instruments of charity and sorrow, according to the discipline of those ages.
The actions and proper office of the grace of
chastity in general, are these:
1. To resist all unchaste thoughts: at no hand
entertaining pleasure in the unfruitful fancies and remembrances of
uncleanness, although no definite desire or resolution be entertained.
2. At no hand to entertain any desire, or any
fantastic imaginative loves, though by shame, or disability, or other
circumstance, they be restrained from act.
3. To have a chaste eye and hand: for it is all one with what part of the body we commit
adultery: and if a man lets his eye loose and enjoys the lust of that, he is an
adulterer. Look not upon a woman to lust after her. And supposing all the other
members restrained, yet if the eye be permitted to lust, the man can no
otherwise be called chaste than he can be called severe and mortified that sits
all day long seeing plays and revellings, and out of greediness to fill his
eye, neglects his belly. There are some vessels which, if you offer to lift by
the belly or bottom, you cannot stir them, but are soon removed if you take
them by the ears. It matters not with which of your members you are taken and
carried off from your duty and severity.
4. To have a heart and mind chaste and pure; that
is, detesting all uncleanness; disliking all its motions, past actions,
circumstances, likenesses, discourses: and this ought to be the chastity of
virgins and widows, of old persons and eunuchs especially, and generally of all
men, according to their several necessities.
5. To discourse chastely and purely; with great care declining all indecencies
of language, chastening the tongue and restraining it with grace, as vapours of
wine are restrained with a bunch of myrrh.
6. To disapprove by an after-act all involuntary
and natural pollutions: for, if a man delights in having suffered any natural
pollution, and with pleasure remembers it, he chooses that which was in itself
involuntary; and that which, being natural, was innocent, becoming voluntary,
is made sinful.
7. They that have performed these duties and
parts of chastity will certainly abstain from all exterior actions of
uncleanness, those noonday and midnight devils, those lawless and ungodly
worshippings of shame and uncleanness, whose birth is in trouble, whose growth
is in folly, and whose end is in shame.
But besides these general acts of chastity which
are common to all states of men and women,there are some few things to the
1. Virgins must remember, that the virginity
of the body is only excellent in order to the purity of the soul; who therefore
must consider, that since they are in the some measure in a condition like that
of angels, it is their duty to spend much of their time in angelical
employment: for in the same degree that virgins live more spiritually than
other persons, in the same degree is their virginity a more excellent state.
But else, it is no better than that of involuntary or constrained eunuchs; a
misery and a trouble, or else a mere privation, as much without excellency as
2. Virgins must contend for a singular modesty;
whose first part must be an ignorance in the distinction of sexes, or their
proper instruments; or if they accidentally be instructed in that, it must be
supplied with an inadvertency or neglect of all thoughts and remembrances of
such difference; and the following parts of it must be pious and chaste
thoughts, holy language, and modest carriage.
3. Virgins must be retired and unpublic: for all
freedom and looseness of society is a violence done to virginity, not in its
natural, but in its moral capacity; that is, it loses part of its severity,
strictness, and opportunity of advantages, by publishing that person whose work
is religion, whose company is angels, whose thoughts must dwell in heaven, and
separate from all mixtures of the world.
4. Virgins have a peculiar obligation to charity:
for this is the virginity of the soul; as purity, integrity, and separation is
of the body: which doctrine we are taught by St. Peter: `Seeing ye have
purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love
of the brethren, see that ye love one another with a pure heart, fervently.' For a virgin that consecrates her body to
God, and pollutes her spirit with rage, or impatience, or inordinate anger,
gives him what he most hates, a most foul and defiled soul.
5. These rules are necessary for virgins that
offer that state to God, and mean not to enter into the state of marriage; for
they that only wait the opportunity of a convenient change are to steer
themselves by the general rules of chastity.
For widows, the fontanel of whose desires
hath been opened by the former permissions of the marriage-bed, they must
1. That God hath now restrained the former
license, bound up their eyes, and shut up their heart into a narrower compass,
and hath given them sorrow to be a bridle to their desires. A widow must be a
mourner; and she that is not cannot so well secure the chastity of her proper
2. It is against public honesty to marry another
man so long as she is with child by her former husband: and of the same fame it
is, in a lesser proportion, to marry within the year of mourning; but anciently
it was infamous for her to marry till by common account the body was dissolved
into its first principle of earth.
3. A widow must restrain her memory and her
fancy, not recalling or recounting her former permissions and freer licenses
with any present delight: for then she opens that slice which her husband's
death and her own sorrow have shut up.
4. A widow that desires her widowhood should be a
state pleasing to God, must spend her time as devoted virgins should, in
fastings and prayers and charity.
5. A widow must forbid herself to sue those
temporal solaces, which in her former estate were innocent, but now are
Concerning married persons, besides the
keeping of their mutual faith and contract with each other, these particulars
are useful to be observed:
1. Although their mutual endearments are safe
within the protection of marriage, yet they that have wives or husbands must be
as though they had them not; that is, they must have an affection greater to
each other than they have to any person in the world, but not greater than they
have to God: but that they be ready to part with all interest in each other's
person rather than sin against God.
2. In their permissions and license they must be
sure to observe the order of nature, and the ends of God. "He is an ill husband
that uses his wife as a man treats a harlot," having no other end but pleasure.
Concerning which our best rule is, that although in this, as in eating and
drinking, there is an appetite to be satisfied which cannot be done without
pleasing that desire, yet, since that desire and satisfaction was intended by
nature for other ends, they should never be separate from those ends, but
always be joined with all or one of these ends, "with a desire of children, or
to avoid fornication, or to lighten and ease the cares and sadnesses of
household affairs, or to endear each other: "but never with a purpose, either
in act or desire, to separate the sensuality from these ends which hallow it.
Onan did separate his act from it proper end, and so ordered his embraces that
his wife should not conceive, and God punished him.
3. Married persons must keep such modesty and
decency of treating each other, that they never force themselves into high and
violent lusts, with arts and misbecoming devices; always remembering, that
those mixtures are most innocent which are most simple and most natural, most
orderly and most safe.
4. It is a duty of matrimonial chastity to be
restrained and temperate in the use of their lawful pleasures: concerning
which, although no universal rule can antecedently be given to all persons, any
more than to all bodies one proportion of meat and drink, yet married persons
are to estimate the degree of their license according to the following
proportions. 1. That it be moderate, so as to consist with health. 2. That it
be so ordered as not to be too expensive of time, that precious opportunity of
working out our salvation. 3. That when duty is demanded, it be always paid (so
far as is in our powers and election) according to the foregoing measures. 4.
That it be with a temperate affection, without violent transporting desires, or
too sensual applications. Concerning which a man is to make judgment by
proportion to other actions, and the severities of his religion, and the
sentences of sober and wise persons; always remembering, that marriage is a
provision for supply of the natural necessities of the body, not for the
artificial and procured appetites of the mind. And it is a sad truth, that many
married persons, thinking that the flood-gates of liberty are set wide open
without measures or restraint, (so they sail in that channel,) have felt the
final rewards of intemperance and lust, by their unlawful using of lawful
permissions. Only let each of them be temperate, and both of them be modest.
Socrates was wont to say,that those women to whom nature hath not been
indulgent in good features and colours, should make it up themselves with
excellent manners; and those who were beautiful and comely should be careful
that so fair a body be not polluted with unhandsome usages. To which Plutarch
adds, that a wife, if she be unhandsome, should consider how extremely ugly she
would be if she wanted modesty: but if she be handsome, let her think how
gracious that beauty would be if she super adds chastity.
5. Married persons by consent are to abstain from
their mutual entertainments at solemn times of devotion; not as a duty of
itself necessary, but as being the most proper act of purity, which, in their
condition, they can present to God, and being a good advantage for attending
their preparation to the solemn duty and their demeanour in it. It is St.
Paul's counsel, that `by consent for a time they should abstain, that they may
give themselves to fasting and prayer.' And though when Christians did receive
the holy communion every day, it is certain they did not abstain but had
children; yet, when the communion was more seldom, they did with religion
abstain from the marriage-bed during the time of their solemn preparatory
devotions, as anciently they did from eating and drinking, till the solemnity
of the day was past.
6. It were well if married persons would, in
their penitential prayers, and in their general confessions, suspect
themselves, and accordingly ask a general pardon for all their indecencies, and
more passionate applications of themselves in the offices of marriage; that
what is lawful and honourable in its kind may not be sullied with imperfect
circumstances; or, if it be, it may be made clean again by the interruption and
recallings of such a repentance, of which such uncertain parts of action are
But, because of all the dangers of a Christian,
none more pressing and troublesome than the temptations to lust, no enemy more
dangerous than that of the flesh, no accounts greater than what we have to
reckon for at the audit of concupiscence, therefore it concerns all that would
be safe from this death to arm themselves by the following rules, to prevent or
to cure all the wounds of our flesh made by the poisoned arrows of lust.
1. When a temptation of lust assaults thee,
do not resist it by heaping up arguments against it and disputing with it;
considering its offers and its dangers, but fly from it; that is, think not at all of it, lay aside all
consideration concerning it, and turn away from it by any severe and laudable
thought of business. Saint Jerome very wittingly reproves the Gentile
superstition, who pictured the virgin-deities armed with a shield and lance, as
if chastity could not be defended without war and direct contention. No; this
enemy is to be treated otherwise. If you hear it speak, though but to dispute
with it, it ruins you; and the very arguments you go about to answer, leave a
relish upon the tongue. A man may be burned if he goes near the fire, though
but to quench his house; and by handling pitch,though but to draw it from your
clothes, you defile your fingers.
2. Avoid idleness, and fill up all the spaces of
thy time with severs and useful employment; for lust usually creeps in at those
emptinesses where the soul is unemployed, and the body is at ease. For no easy,
healthful, and idle person was ever chaste, if he could be tempted. But of all
employments bodily labour is most useful, and of greatest benefit for the
driving away the devil.
3. Give no entertainment to the beginnings, the
first motions and secret whispers of the spirit of impurity: for if you totally
suppress it, it dies; if you permit the
furnace to breathe its smoke and flame out at any vent, it will rage to the
consumption of the whole. This cockatrice is soonest crushed in the shell; but
if it grows, it turns to a serpent, and a dragon, and a devil.
4. Corporal mortification, and hard usages of our
body, hath, by all ages of the church, been accounted a good instrument, and of
some profit against the spirit of fornication. A spare diet, and a thin course
table, seldom refreshment, frequent fasts, not violent, and interrupted with
returns to ordinary feeding, but constantly little, unpleasant, of wholesome
but sparing nourishment: for by such cutting off the provisions of vectorial,
we shall weaken the strengths of our enemy. To which if we add lyings upon the
ground, painful postures in prayer, reciting our devotions with our arms
extended at full length, like Moses praying against Amalek, or our blessed
Saviour hanging upon his painful bed of sorrows, the cross, and (if the lust be
upon us, and sharply tempting) by inflicting any smart to overthrow the
strongest passion by the most violent pain, we shall find great ease for the
present, and the resolution and apt sufferance against the future danger. And
this was St. Paul's remedy. `I bring my body under;' he used some rudenesses
towards it. But it was a great nobleness of chastity which St. Jerome reports
of a son of the king of Nicomedia, who,
being tempted upon flowers and a perfumed bed with a soft violence, but yet
tied down to the temptation, and solicited with circumstances of Asian luxury
by an impure courtesan, lest the easiness of his posture should abuse him, spit
out his tongue into her face; to represent that no virtue hath cost the saints
so much as this of chastity.
5. Fly from all occasions, temptations,
loosenesses of company, balls and revellings, indecent mixtures of wanton
dancings, idle talk, private society with strange women, starings upon a
beauteous face, the company of women that are singers, amorous gestures, garish
and wanton dresses, feasts and liberty, banquets and perfumes, wine and strong drink, which are made to persecute
chastity; some of these being the very prologues to lust, and the most innocent
of them being but like condited or pickled mushrooms, which if carefully
corrected and seldom tasted may be harmless, but can never do good: ever
remembering, that it is easier to die for chastity than to live with it; and
the hangman could not extort a consent from some persons from whom a lover
would have entreated it. For the glory of chastity will easily overcome the
rudeness of fear and violence; but easiness and softness and smooth temptations
creep in, and, like the sun, make a maiden lay by her veil and robe, which
persecution, like the northern wind, makes her hold fast and clap close about
6. He that will secure his chastity must first
cure his pride and his rage. For oftentimes lust is the punishment of a proud
man, to tame the vanity of his pride by the shame and affronts of unchastity;
and the same intemperate heat that makes anger does enkindle lust.
7. If thou beest assaulted with an unclean
spirit, trust not thyself alone; but run forth into company whose reverence and
modesty may suppress, or whose society may divert thy thoughts: and a perpetual
witness of thy conversation is of especial use against this vice, which
evaporates in the open air like camphier, being impatient of light and
8. Use frequent and earnest prayers to the King
of purities, that first of virgins, the eternal God, who is of an essential
purity, that he would be pleased to reprove and cast out the unclean spirit.
For beside the blessings of prayer by way of reward, it hath a natural virtue
to restrain this vice: because a prayer against it is an unwillingness to act
it; and so long as we heartily pray against it our desires are secured, and
then this devil hath no power. This was St. Paul's other remedy: `For this
cause I besought the Lord thrice.' And there is much reason and much advantage
in the use of this instrument; because the main thing that in this affair is to
be secured is a man's mind. He that goes about to cure lust by bodily exercises
alone(as St. Paul's phrase is) or mortifications, shall find them sometimes
instrumental to it, and incitations of sudden desires, but always insufficient
and of little profit: but he that hath a chaste mind shall find his body apt
enough to take laws; and let it do its worst, it cannot make a sin, and in its
greatest violence can but produce a little natural uneasiness, not so much
trouble as a severe fasting-day, or a hard night's lodging upon boards. If a
man be hungry he must eat; and if he be thirsty he must drink in some
convenient time, or else he dies; but if the body be rebellious, so the mind be
chaste, let it do its worst, if you resolve perfectly not to satisfy it, you
can receive no great evil by it. Therefore the proper cure is by application to
the spirit and securities of the mind, which can no way so well be secured as
by frequent and fervent prayers, and sober resolutions, and severe discourses.
9. Hither bring in succor from consideration of
the Divine presence and of his holy angels, mediation of death, and the
passions of Christ upon the cross, imitation of his purities, and of the Virgin
Mary, his unspotted and holy mother, and of such eminent saints, who, in their
generations, were burning and shining lights, unmingled with such
uncleannesses, which defile the soul, and who now follow the Lamb, withersoever
10. These remedies are of universal efficacy, in
all cases extraordinary and violent; but in ordinary and common, the remedy
which God hath provided, that is, honourable marriage, hath a natural efficacy, besides a virtue by Divine
blessing, to cure the inconveniences which otherwise might afflict persons
temperate and sober.
 1 Thess. iv. 3-5.
 Virginitas est, in arne corruptibili,
incorruptionis perpetua meditatio-St. Aug. 1. de Virg. c.13.
 Apoc. xiv. 4.
 Job, xxiv. 15, etc.
 Atiria paxm.
 Hos. ii. 6.
 Appetitus fornicationis anxietas est,
satietas vero poenitentia.- S. Hieron.
 1 Cor. vi. 18.
 fxartikai twn
 Spiritu principali me confirma.-Psal.
 1 Cor. vi. 19.
 1 Cor. iii. 17.
 Ephes. v. 32.
 Apud Aug. de Adulter. Conjug-Plut.
Conjug. Praecept.-Casso saltem delectamine amare quot potiri non licest.
 Patellas luxuriae oculos, dixit
 Time videre unde possis cadere, et
noli fieri perversa simplicitate securus.-St. Aug.
 Sp. Minucius Pontifex Posthumium
monuit, ne verbis vitae eastimoniam non aequantibus uteretur.-Plut. de Cap. ex
 1 Pet. i. 22.
 Nisi fundamenta stirpis jacta sint
probe, Miseros necesse est esse deinceps posteros.-Eurip.
 Contra libidinis impetum apprehende
fugam, si vis obtinere victoriam.-St. Aug. Nella guerra d' armr chi fuge
 Quisquis in primo obsitit Repulitqua
amorem, tutus ac victor fuit: Qui blandiendo dulce nutrivit malum, Sero
recusat ferre, quod subiit, jugum.-Senec. Hippol. 134.
 In vita S. Pauli.
 Benedictus in spinis se volutavit; S.
Martinianus faciem et manus. S. Johanes, cognomento Bonus, calamos acutos inter
ungues et carnem digitorum intrusit. S. Theoctistus in silvia more ferarum
vixit, ne inter Arabes pollueretur.
 Venus rosam amat propter fabellam,
quam recitat.-Labanius. Venter mero awstuanus cito despumatur in libidines.-St
Hieron. Il fuoco che non mi scalda, non voglio che mi scotti. - numquid ego a
te Magno prognatam deposco consule - Velataque stola mea cum conferbuit ira?-
Hobat. Serm 1.1. Sat 2.
 Danda est opera at matrimonio
devincianur, quod est tutissimum juventutis vinculum.-Plut. de Educ. Lib